why women are emotionally smarter than men

every one of us has seen a guy becoming "devdas" in love,but not many of us saw a girl going crazy in love for too long. . females are far better in "drawing the lines" so to speak.blame it on the work they routinely perform.
i always believed this at the back of my mind but a recent incident brought it into the open. last sunday i endeavoured to try my hand at cleaning my room owing to a one month long absence of my maid.i tried to be a perfectionist at first and ended up taking too much on myself. its like the half life thing every time you swipe the room with the wet cloth , the dust levels became half of previous value you cant just 'complete' it ,add to that marks i would leave by my foot.that moment i really admired my buaji's approach. she once made a room closed from years livable in an hour as she knew when to stop . hats off
i think girls are programmed to be like that from the starting. they are warned time and again not to get stuck with one thing,they are always taught to play safe ,while guys are encouraged to be daring.hence most girls would not say hi to a guy if she has the slightest doubt he may not reply back  or for that matter reply to a guys sms . they test the guys seriousness by ignoring.vaise to be fair to them the attitudeof our society has a lot to do with this . a girl ignoring a guy is a routine but the converse is a news. the extreme case of this when a guy rejects a girl her image takes a irreversible beating and only way to regain that is to change the workplace.

problem discussion with girls

discussion with girls never solves problems .at best u can get sympathy which however good it may sound at first , makes you see the problem in a graver light than it actually is..compared to a guy who will start off by saying chal be . sabke sath hota hai ye....... ultimately its only you who is goibg to solve the problem its all about the point of view that gets effected

the icon of attitude

Mahendra singh dhoni , the new immortalalized icon of indian india cricket or for that matter, india as country, is an model of any youngster, more so for an MBA aspirant .my PDP teacher told me "if you have it in you to become a good cricketer then you can easily be a good manager".he was stressing on the similarity of traits that separate great cricketers or managers from good ones.dhoni may may never please the purists with his batting technique,but he has the record as a player and more so as captain that he needn't care about them.he emerged into the scene in 2004 when most of this world cup wiinning team members had become stalwarts in their own right.there was the maverick dasher Sehwag,to the party animal Yuvraj and the larger than life Tendulkar , not to forgot the god of techical correctness Dravid and  the passing titan sourav Ganguly .7 years down the line he commands the respect and admiration of all of them.